Wednesday, 26 April 2017

Choosing Bridesmaids


Choosing my bridesmaids was bread and butter.. literally super easy. I always knew when I get married, I wanted my clique aka my girls, my sister and cousin's to be in my bridal party. I mean, I just wouldn't have it any other way. My girls are my sisters, literally I thank God for blessing me with such great friends. We have been through so much together. We have cried, prayed, disagreed to agree and  laughed together.  This is what makes us special, we have a great bond since secondary school. It's now  been 17 years since we been friends, for sure I wasn't going to pick anyone else. Without them I would feel like so much is missing on my wedding day.

Before you start picking your bridal party think about who you would want next to you on the biggest day of your life? Who will make you happy and at ease? who will help you plan your hen party? 

THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU ASK.

At this point I hope you know who your true friends are, otherwise,you're in for a big surprise. I've heard stories were "so called friends" cancelled on being bridesmaids last minute or they come with bad attitude and don't want to be involved. Once you ask someone to be your brides you cannot go back! honestly take your time after engagement and really think about who you want on the front line of the most important day of your life. 

In addition, you will need your bridal party to finance a few things. Not everyone will be willing to pay for their attire or bits and bobs for your wedding. So it's important to discuss these things prior to the wedding. Your true friends would make sure you're well looked after on your big day and they would understand that what you want on your day is very important. 

HOW TO CHOOSE BRIDESMAIDS.

Ladies take your time picking your bridal party. Bridesmaid aren't just a pretty prop for the pictures. Think carefully about the kind of relationship you have with each individual, do you trust their judgement? Are you yourself 100% in their company? Honestly, bridesmaids actually have a big and important job to do. They are the ones who help you plan your wedding day, go dress fittings with you, and  be there when you want to talk. They need to help you make the right choices. They are the shoulders you cry on when stress kicks in trust me.

Choose the girls who make you feel like your day would be lacking something if they weren't there by your side cheering you. You will need your girls to help you get into your dress, remind you how beautiful you look before walking down the aisle to meet your husband. The energy they transfer to you that day is very important. 
Think about it this way. It's like being on a night out with your girls, do they tell you when your eyebrows are too big? do they compliment you when you look good? do they tell you when you don't look good? think of all these questions and I guarantee  you will make the right choice.

STAND YOUR GROUND 

Bridesmaids can be stressful, everyone has an opinion and I guarantee you will hear things like "please don't make me wear pink dress or anything bright cause it don't suit my complexion, and  it's not me at all". These little pushes clearly indicates you need to stand your ground, be firm and stick to your theme. Your friends will understand that it's your wedding not there's, so what you want goes. You cannot change your theme just because it doesn't suit one person, I know it sounds a little harsh but it's the truth.

NOT EVERYONE WILL MAKE YOUR BRIDAL TEAM.

Depending on how many people you want in your bridal party, you may not want all your friends to be your bridesmaids. If this is the case then be gentle and break it to them gently. Often people can get upset so maybe create roles for your other friends who don't make the bridal party. For example some can do the reading in the ceremony and some can help with arranging flowers. If you're having a traditional wedding then let them be more involved in the planning as well.




This post was requested, I hope you enjoy and get a few tips to prepare your big day. 

Love Edwige 
xox

Thursday, 20 April 2017

Lessons I Learned While Wedding Planning


Today's post is a little different than usual. I'm sharing my wedding planning journey/ experience so far. I'm planning my wedding for next year summer 2018. I really hope this post helps someone out there, I wish I came across something like this to help me.

DECIDE YOUR PRIORITIES BEFORE WEDDING PLANNING. 

If you're planning your wedding, before you begin with any sort of planning, I would advise for you to note down what are your values, in terms of what you want your wedding day to consist of. What you want your guest to feel. what type of life you want after your wedding. Then look at your finances, I guarantee this will help you make the right choices for your wedding.

REALITY WILL KICK IN SOON RATHER THEN LATER 

Initially, when I first started my wedding planning, I wanted everything big and extravagant.. I thought to have 500 guest in order to have everyone that we know present. I also considered getting a wedding planner to help with all the planning so I can just focus on finding my dress. However, my friends and family kept telling me that I really didn't need one. I'm generally very organised and a perfectionists.. although I already semi planned everything on my lap top, I still went ahead and contacted a wedding planner. Straight after I then realised everything planners offer I've done. Therefore, I thought scrap this and automatically I saved £1,500 or more. I'm really enjoying planning my wedding it's stressful but all worth it. This journey  has helped me put things into perspective in terms of what's  important, what we need, and what we don't need.
FINDING A VENUE IS THE MOST DIFFICULT. 

So far finding a venue has been a big challenge..  let me tell you something, weddings are so expensive! you will get a headache, once you realise that things cost a whole lot more than you ever imagined. Most venues are only available on a dry hire basis which means you only pay for the venue and bring in your own caterer, decorator, cake, waiters, security, ushers, photographer and videographer. All these things add up in the end and trust me its too much.

BE WILLING TO COMPROMISE ON THOSE PREFERENCES.

Venues that I loved and dreamed of having my wedding reception turned out to be big NO NO. It wasn't convenient at all, didn't have a car park or free parking around. Some didn't provide cutlery, tables and chairs.  These mentioned things are super important to me. Otherwise having to hire them individually would cost us too much.  (I will talk about venues in a different post.) Roughly venue prices starts from £6,000 and above. In Essex and kent prices venues start from £16,000 and above. Keep in mind that theses prices are all dry hire basis, this means you have to hire everything else separately. Unless you're born into a rich family than cool, otherwise seriously ask yourself is spending 30k or above on a wedding a smart decision? Many people fail to understand that a wedding only last one day, there's a life after, and you shouldn't start your new life in debt because that's a problem within itself. Please do not borrow money or finance your wedding to show off or to please people.


CUT OFF THE UNNECESSARY THINGS.

I've learned to cut out unnecessary things like expensive wedding shoes that cost £700 and above. Think about it this way, £700 can be used towards my dream honeymoon, to help create a life time memory. Why waste it on shoes that I may only wear once? I've got plenty of shoes, some are brand new in a box that I could wear. To be honest I think most people only buy expensive wedding shoes for the 1 second feature in the wedding clip.

DECIDE WHATS IMPORTANT TO YOU AND BE WILLING TO COMPROMISE ON THE OTHERS. 

I had to seat back and thoroughly think about what's important  to me on my wedding day. I learned that the whole wedding experience is very important to me, and ultimately I want my guest to have a good experience. Remember your wedding should reflect bride and groom, so try and meet in the middle with your partner. You will need to compromise your visions  and combine it together.

I learned  having a intimate wedding is what my partner and I want. It's important for us to know everyone attending our wedding. Therefore, it needs to be invitation only and not everyone gets to bring a +1. One thing we really need to keep in mind is not everyone you know needs to attend your wedding, SIMPLE!. Yes people will be upset, but at the end of the day, prices go up with every number of guest. For me it's important that my family, close friends and some church members get a seat.




START PLANNING EARLY AND CHOOSE YOUR VENUE WISELY. 

It's also very important to start planning your wedding ahead and start  comparing prices in order to get the best deals. As soon as I  got engaged I started looking at venues, photographers, videographers and catering to compare prices. Then I narrowed it down to top 3,  then compared again and made a decision. If you're planning a summer wedding then I would advise you to book especially your venue 2 years or 1year and 6 months in advance to get your desired dates. Another tip I highly recommend is to be aware of high season, venues are more expensive between May- September and Low season is more cheaper between October - April.

In terms of venue,  look for packages meaning a venue that comes with tables, chairs, clothes, cutlery, glasses, decoration, kitchen, waiters and door man. It's a lot more cheaper paying for this all together rather than a dry hire. Another lesson I've learned is to use the people around me i.e I know a baker who can make my cake, a cater who will cook, a  graphic designer who can create my invitation. I know a singer who could sing, a photographer who can take my pictures. It really helps, so don't be afraid to use your friends and family. Honestly forget the movies this is reality, I'm not saying don't aim high but be realistic to your pocket and think about your after life your wedding. You can still have a fables wedding on a budget, go on your beautiful honeymoon and come back to reality and still be comfortable in terms of finance.



I hope these lessons I've learned so far planning my wedding helps you plan yours.

Let me know if you want to see more post like this.

Edwige

Monday, 17 April 2017

Wide Legged Jeans

Hello my lovely followers.

First of all, I would like to apologies for the lack of consistency on my blog. So much has happened, I got engaged to the love of my life :) and we are getting married next year!!!.  I'm super excited and I cannot wait. To be honest life took over, I lost passion for blogging and I wasn't comfortable in my work. Nevertheless I have been trying to find myself in terms of style. Therefore I wanted to take time away and get inspired. I do feel more comfortable in my style now and hopefully I will be able to execute that here.

With that being said, I would like to thank everyone who's messaged and encouraging me to continue blogging. You guys are amazing honestly and I really appreciate the love.

Anyway, lately I've been on the hunt for a new go with everything wide legged jeans. I'm in love with this style of jeans right now as it's very flattering on me. This particular pair is  stretchy  and super comfortable. I paired it with a boyfriend sky blue shirt, brown wedges and a small black bag. To accessorise I added a Ysl arty ring in turquoise and gold bangle


OUTFIT DETAILS
Shirt: H&M
Jeans: Diesel 
Shoes: FOREVER21
Bag: ZARA
Ring: YSL 
Bangle: Michael Kors 

Monday, 16 May 2016

Comfy Chic

Hello lovelies! It's been a while and I've missed you all :)
The last few months has been hectic but the weather is getting better so I'm in a good spirit. I love summer it's my favourite season and the sunshine makes me happy!  I love that there's no need to try hard, throw on anything and it looks amazing. For me less is more in the summer, it's all about simplicity and elegance, then again that's me overall. 

Anyway today's blog features my friend Ruth, she's also a blogger check her out (click here). I headed to church on Sunday and it was pretty sunny,  but a little chilly, so I decided to go for a comfortable and warm look. I opted for this gorgeous jumper I love so much, it's been seating in my wardrobe for about 1 month. I paired it with black jeans, brown wedges, cream and mauve cross body bag. 



Outfit Details 

Jumper: BOOHOO
Jeans: LEE
Shoes: FOREVER21
Bag: VALENTINO


Sunday, 1 May 2016

Client Looks

I created a few looks for clients this week and I thought to share it with you guys. If you follow me on Instgram then I'm sure you've seen these pictures. The first 
look is a office attire, second is causal but still chic for during the day and finally evening look. All looks are pieces from Miu Miu spring /summer 2016 collection. 

These looks below are for a sophisticated lady who wants to always look chic and elegant regardless. She's always Classic in a way but she's not afraid of colour. That's why these looks are perfect for her. 




Xox 
Edwige 

Wednesday, 17 February 2016

Random Instagram moments

So lately I have been taking a lot of pictures and posting more on Instagram (Edwigealamode). I'm sharing random Instagram moments with you today. You guys already know that I love simplicity but you will find in some pictures I tried something different. At the moment I'm very  inspired by Miu miu girl concept. Which is very graphical and optical. It involves clashing colours and prints. I will be posting more with this concept.





Thursday, 14 January 2016

Silk Fibre Enhancer: Review

Happy new year everyone!! I hope you had an amazing time with your loved ones.

If you are on a hunt for a brow enhancer that is easy to use,  gives a natural effect , adds shape and volume. Then Silk oils of Morocco fibre enhancer may be perfect for you. It works really well on it's own or mixed with other products ( I.e pencil, eye shadow, etc).


Silks oils of Morocco's fibre enchanter comes in 5 shades
Extra light: fair brows
Light: blond brows
Medium: medium brown brows
Dark: dark brown brows
Extra dark: very dark/ black brows

I'm using the darkest shade in extra brown as my brows are fairly dark. I've been using the brow enhancer for approximately 4 weeks and I must say it adapts very well to my skin. I tend to get really oily around my brows and forehead area, so usually whenever I pencil my brows I tend to set it with a loose powder to matt it.

I found that this enhancer is more On the Matt side, therefore I don't need to set it with powder. I have very thin and messy brows but this product tends to help give my brows shape, fullness and also keep them in place. To be fair even if you have very thin brows or  none I feel you can create a naturally looking strong brows with this product, 

I've noticed it takes about  60 seconds to set and to he honest it's not hard to use. It's much quicker to use than a pencil. I use it the same way I would use a pencil to fill in my brows.   Removal is easy as well I just washed my face with warm water.





As you can see from the pictures above my brows really looks filled. This product gave me a more thick and defined brows. However, although I do like the fibre enhancer I  will continue to pencil in my brows as I'm very familiar with that method,  but I will also use the enhancer as a setting powder. 

The brow enhancer can be purchased from Silk of Morocco Oil for £24.95 alternatively from  Boots  for £19.99.